Adam Brody’s character in Netflix’s new rom-com series “Nobody Wants This” is a dream and a nightmare. Or at least he is for those who identify with an insecure attachment style (this VALLEY writer included). Note: this article will contain spoilers, so if you want to read the show instead of watching it, keep on scrolling. Here is the guide to the lovely rabbi Noah, and why this VALLEY writer loves and hates him.
A Tale of Two Hearts
The story is set in Los Angeles and follows Kristen Bell’s character Joanne. She hosts a podcast with her younger sister where they talk about relationships and sex (on occasion, it imitates “Call Her Daddy”). Joanne’s mother is in love with her ex-husband (Joanne’s father) even though they have been separated for years and he is now dating men.
Meanwhile, Noah (the star of this article) is a rabbi at a nearby synagogue. He recently ended his engagement with his long term girlfriend, and Joanne meets him at a friend’s dinner party. This is essentially the only *real* problem with this wonderful man.
His family has this inability to move on from his last girlfriend. They believe she was perfect and so a lot of the show is him trying to convince them he has moved on. If you want to hear more, watch the show. Now, here’s some analysis.
So Golden
There are a few occasions throughout the show where Joanne tries to self sabotage the relationship. VALLEY isn’t defending that, but hey, it’s understandable. As the show progresses, it’s revealed she has a history of doing so in her past relationships.
Noah won’t let that happen. He develops such a deep connection with her that he sees through this facade. Plus, he loves her too much, and IT’S NOT EVEN THE OVERBEARING KIND. He’s just always there for her and it’s amazing but like irritating at the same time.
Also, he’s open with his emotions. Noah doesn’t keep secrets from Joanne ever. He’s just so calm and comforting and it’s stressing this VALLEY writer out. How is someone so secure in who they are and their relationships all the time? Yes, he is a character on a Netflix show but Adam Brody plays him a bit too well.
In the end, Noah is arguably a wonder of a man. He doesn’t let Joanne self-sabotage or run away from him, and he does so in a calming and soothing manner.
He’s a secure man who knows what he wants. Yes, to the insecure attachment people out there, Noah is terrifying. But maybe, that’s what we all need: someone who pushes us out of our comfort zone.
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